THE MANY UNDER BELLIES OF TWITTER/FACEBOOK ETC! !
BE-CAREFUL WHO YOU FOLLOW/FRIEND/ACCEPT!!
Always have access to your child's social media, if they 'must' have it!
I use the same You Tube account as my son, so I can restrict and monitor what he is watching and up to! I have the " I want my privacy" to come.....not looking forward to that one!
A FEW THING NOT EVEN I, AS A 10 YEAR PERSONAL USER KNEW!
I mean why would/should we know, I personally use Twitter and Facebook, to keep in touch with friends ,the news, gossip etc, I follow who I want to on Twitter, I don't like that just anyone can follow you, so I don't say much on my personal account, I leave that for Facebook, I choose my audience out of my 50 odd friends! I like to find interesting articles, reviews to read and comment 'a lot' when I have a opinion I feel I need to get out. The letter limit on Twitter doesn't allow my sarcasm to get out without sounding rude. Don't get me wrong we all have a little more oomph behind a screen but we are who we are, we are here to socialize, debate and have fun, Right? ?
Learn new things, meet new people, isn't that what networking is about? Getting you or your product out there?
There are thousands of regular/genuine and thousands of businesses, using it how it should.
Then there's the DARK side,
The evil underbellies
Pedophiles
Prostitutes
Cam Girls
Porn
Trolls
Fakes
That is just what I saw...I'm sure there will be more, lots more!
Recently, as a lot of you know I have started the twitter account @nailsforrealgirls.
Now it's been a long time since I opened my last account, which I did nearly a decade ago, at the beginning they ask your name etc. then your interests, to which I chose fun, beauty, health, nails etc as far as I can remember those were some of the choices, there are quite a few, I clicked all I was interested in, I have lots of hobbies, just don't do them all at once. Little did I know though, that they followed EVERYONE with the same interests. Now at no stage did I click porn. ..nor cam girls. oh I knew they were on Twitter but not as bad as I thought, I also didn't choose kids at school, nor did I choose pedophiles/pedophile supporters! ! The people I followed, 2000 in all were shocking!
I looked into it a little and there is a MASSIVE problem here. Is twitter/Facebook now the newest brothel on the net? So many cam girls and girls/boys offering to meet for sex etc! ! Is it a free porn site?
Is it a Pedophile swap shop?? Swapping sick stories and fantasies for all to see!
Giving each other tips on how to make a child hide its history, open new accounts so their parents don't know....its all there and worse!
Or what about all the fake pics, took from the net, that pretty lil girl/boy who openly puts in their Bio their age, to pull in other young users IMO. Young children looking to be excepted..somewhere anywhere and everywhere! As all children do, they all thrive off attention, we are busy and cant always be there especially as they get older they want their privacy! Teenage years are horrible we all remember them, unless you had perfect....everything and was with the "cool kids" school was pants, feeling of never fitting in, always picked last, didn't look or act like anyone else....now, now, I love that I am different, not set in a mold, or like the "cool kids" I see them still, bit different now! I love me and who I am inside and out...not perfect in anyway, I'm just me....cant be anyone else, no matter how hard we try we will always be us, shame our attitude isn't like that as a teenager...hormones huh?
Now we have all met a troll, trolls can be infuriating, my motto, I don't listened to the piss stained alcoholic asleep on the bench so why would I listen or let a trolls opinions get to me? I wouldn't and never do, I engage don't get me wrong, they all think they are so clever and witty, when in reality they are far from humorous, bullies, I like to point out where they trip themselves up...give some one a rope ;) I was stalked for near on a year due to a difference of opinion, this stalker had over 300 diff accounts, most were unused but they are still out there, something so simple turned into something that took over my life...yet another story ;) I thought dead accounts were removed!? Seems not!
Laugh & block. They hate it! My block list is never ending! !
There's always the chance you will be attacked by a swarm of trolls that don't agree with something you have said, most work in tag teams, hunt like wolves
So basically we could be talking to ANYONE. This is nothing new to us, lots hide at home online as much as possible enjoying making arguments, pretending to be all they are not, even on Facebook as ourselves I think its not all true life, its what you want others to see of your life, unless you put a status up about every argument etc.....I knew a couple like that shame they split, great entertainment!! I didn't know that it was any where near as bad as it is. The young children, their flirty pics, their bios state their age, why? some as young as 11!!
Why is an 11 year old girl bored enough to be on Twitter or any other social network?!
Could be any old chimp at the other end if that screen, this has happened since the internet, it can't be policed, obviously isn't or it would have been done by now, unless, Social Media makes you prove your age/identity or our children could say they enjoy 'fun' 'excitement' and end up following the same and likes of that I have, every one and anyone.
If we have nothing to hide what would be the problem with proving our identity and age, if sites like I came across HAVE to exist, then at least make it over 18 at the very least!
Some say in the profile pic and Bio XXX Or over 18's only, no where near enough, again still that attracts kids, so is it a deterrent or a advertisement?
I was just un-following , as I noticed I was up to 2000 and I had only followed a couple of hundred if that, there was no need to click on accounts, You can clearly see all you need from profile pics, bios and banners but I think a child would click, out of pure curiosity! Why isn't it over 18 only, on that sort of account? If that's what they are, an advertisement and free porn! ! Also I didn't realize anyone would want to be seen as pedophile sympathizers or proud to be one, anon or not but one name caught my eye so I took a look at his followers etc the name being untreatedpaedophile
or something similar to that and believe me when I say that's the tamest! Most of these accounts are locked which makes it even worse, what they were saying in public was bad enough. Why are they allowing this? ? Is this what they want their reputation to be? Come get your cam girl or join a pedophile ring or just come and watch your free porn!!
Some of the conversations they have are unrepeatable and vile, the pictures, no words. ...why is this being aloud?
Am I being a prude? Am I gagging freedom of speech or over exaggerating?
And please let's not get started on "dead accounts" The eggs and the likes of, I understand it happens, we lock our selves out change password but most social medias T & C's states if the account isn't used in 6 months they will close it!
I think having NO followers/tweets/ follow anyone or that they haven't tweeted since 2011. If I, as a slow online learner to all this, can see an account is dead or being used as "buy 5000 eggs for loads of walla!" Who would do that? have thousands of accounts that never interact of have any interest in what you do! I just don't get it!
So come on Twitter, come on Facebook, is this what you want to be known as? I'm sure that's not the case.
I mean, I'm not usually a moaner but this well and truly stunned me and made my blood boil!
SORT IT OUT
Make your site how you wanted it. Not how it's being used.
Twitter is where I saw it all but I know its just as bad on any platform!
Rant over
let me know your thoughts on here or join us to talk and see REAL Tweeters @nail4realgals
Please follow, G+ like and share, lets get the word out like I said I knew of a little/ a few did all the above but not to the extreme it is!
Things need to change. Something needs to be done, if we had to prove age and identity, we wouldn't have half the issues we do on twitter. What do you think? Would you have a issue proving who you are?
Best Regards to you all
V.
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